women alone..4 ways to get your husband to do whatever you want --Relationship

For women ...If you want your husband to do something for
you, try these four suggestions.
1. Show appreciation with food and intimacy The next time your husband actually does
something you really wanted him to do, show appreciation by making him his favorite food or by initiating intimacy.

Telling your husband how much you appreciate
him while being intimate or as he’s eating his
favorite pie will create a link in his brain that
says, “Helping my wife makes me happy. I should
help her more.” And he will start to do more.
However, be careful about taking this too far.
s*x is a sacred tool to bond with your husband
and not to control him.


Nothing is more motivating for a man than for his
wife to show him appreciation in the ways he
loves most. After time, you’ll be surprised how
he’ll notice you need something and do it for you
without even being asked.
Showing appreciation is the secret.


2. Ask direct question
Many women get upset because their husbands
don’t do what they ask. But dropping subtle hints
isn’t actually asking. Men don’t hear them
anyway, so stop getting upset by stopping the
subtle hints. Men can’t read your minds or
decipher the subtle-hint code.
Just be direct.

Instead of saying to him, “I’m so tired. I wish the
dishes would just clean themselves tonight,” or
“The trash is piling up. I think it’s trash day
today,” simply ask, “Will you please do the dishes
tonight? I’m exhausted from watching the kids
all day. I would really appreciate your help.”
The more direct your request, the more your
husband will respond.



3. Tell him you need a listening ear only
Many arguments start because the woman
justifiably complains to her husband and he
provides an unwanted solution when all she
wanted was a listening ear.
Men are solution-oriented and paid at work to
solve problems. It’s very difficult for a husband
to hear a problem and not provide a solution,
especially when the woman he loves is having
the problem.


His instinct is to solve it and make her feel
better. But providing solutions doesn’t make her
feel better because all she needs is a few
minutes of adult conversation and a listening
ear.
To avoid getting extra upset, just tell your
husband upfront whether you want a listening ear
or a solution. Remind him, “It’s not about the
nail.”


4. Find out his love language and do it
Some men like physical affection; others like
words of affirmation. And others feel love a
different way. The key to getting your husband
to do what you want is to show him you love him
using his love language. Do this especially when
you see him performing a task you really
appreciate. He’ll start to do more for you.....